Combine that aspect of my personality with the dopamine rush of getting likes (a high I’m clearly not above chasing), announcing my bisexuality through the megaphone of social media seemed like the right choice for me. It did feel grossly millennial to ascribe so much weight to the internet, but something inside me said it might work—that my grid could serve as a contract I’d have no choice but to live up to. I needed to write my fluidity in stone (irony! cute) and an Instagram post was the closest thing I could get to an engraver—if I ever forgot who I was, I could scroll back through my feed
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