Greedy: Notes from a Bisexual Who Wants Too Much

by Jen Winston

still encompass men, but let’s be real: If you keep hooking up with dudes, no one will believe you’re queer (least of all yourself).

Coming out as bi was intimidating, but coming out as lonely? Terrifying.

These low-maintenance convos keep you coming back, an addictive combination of familiar and disappointing.

but you know men are the romantic equivalent of shishito peppers—one out of every twelve will fuck you up.

But in your heart, you can’t deny that bisexuality has never felt queer enough. It’s never felt queer enough to talk about. It’s never felt queer enough to take up space. It’s never felt queer enough to lead you to community, or to show you who you are.