Kindle Notes & Highlights
You must go beyond, but “beyond” does not mean beyond emotion or mind or this or that. You must go beyond the limitation which is holding you right now. Emotion and thought can also become a method and a tool to pave the way for you.
Instead of trying to battle jealousy, it is better to work towards your fulfillment.
if you just learn to include the other as a part of yourself, your life becomes an expression of joyfulness not a pursuit of happiness. Then
If you are a closed bud and you call the bees, they won’t come. If you open up, you don’t have to call; they will anyway come.
So if you want to have wonderful relationships, do not try to manage the relationship. See how to enhance who you are on all levels – physically, mentally, emotionally, and energy-wise. If you enhance yourself into a very beautiful state, everyone will want to hold a relationship with you.
Love is just your ability to respond to someone. The
Love means your emotions have become pleasant. If
Try this – the food that you eat, the air that you breathe, the water that you drink, the earth that you walk upon, just approach it all lovingly. Just see how your life will change! Everything about you will change dramatically, including your health situation. You touch everything lovingly because everything has memory. Isn’t this true with human beings? During some little situation even with a total stranger on the street, if you approach that person lovingly, even if you were to meet this person two years later in some other situation, won’t he respond to you in a certain way? So love is
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“What I take is not important; what I give is important.”
Don’t just go on spreading it around in the street. Just walk and live as a piece of life. Only in a certain situation you have to be a man or a woman; you can be a wonderful human being at that time. If you are like this, there will be no conflict. It will be just fine. Two human beings can live together.
mixed fare, so it gets a little complex. To build a rapport takes effort, it takes compromise, it takes love and it takes endurance. If you want to build a rapport with someone who is not supportive, but you do not want to go his way, it takes lots of endurance. People whom you love are not easy.
There is no best person nor is there a best thing to do on this planet. Whatever you do, if you put your heart into it and really throw yourself, it becomes a great thing to do. Whoever is next to you right now, if you give yourself totally and show total involvement, you will see just anyone is fine.
Somewhere as a mother, she wants her son to get married, she wants him to have a wife, she wants him to be happy – all that is true. But on another level, she is still a woman. She has to now seek permission to share something that belonged to her. That makes things a little difficult. Unfortunately, the same stupid relationship problems have been going on for centuries endlessly. It could be changed, but people have not decided to change it.
The only thing that you can teach your child – which you have to, to some extent – is a few survival tricks: how to survive and make a few bucks in the world. But when it comes to life itself, a child knows more about life experientially, by himself.
The only thing that you can give is an atmosphere of love, care and support for the child to grow. Good parenting is not about teaching the child what to do and what not to do; it is about creating an atmosphere. If
This need has come because of a sense of incompleteness and insecurity about life. If this is dropped, they will know what to do with the child.
But always, the parent encouraging the child to learn to think for himself, to use his intelligence to see what is best for him, is the best insurance you have so that the child grows up well.
A true friend is someone who has the courage to tell you what shit you are, and still be loving and nice to you – that is friendship.
Be a little more courageous in your friendships. Be ready to lose them, it is okay. At least if you care, you must do what is good for the other, not for yourself.
Many people are trying to divide their life into work and family – where work is something that you do just for money and family is something you do to touch people’s lives. But no matter how much money you earn, if you find your husband, wife or children are not at all touched by what you do, it would suddenly seem meaningless to have a family.
You must always gauge your worth in terms of the level of responsibility people are willing to give you, and whether what you are creating is truly worthwhile for yourself and for others.
You need to constantly see how small a creature you are in this existence.
