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“It’s that we have changed our fundamental question from ‘What’s wrong with you?’ to ‘What happened to you?’”
Love this perspective
Our brain is organized to act and feel before we think.
Caring for the infant in this loving way also changes the brain of the caregiving adult. These interactions regulate and reward both child and caregiver.
I realized that neglect is as toxic as trauma.
Because what I know for sure is that everything that has happened to you was also happening for you.
