I’ll share with you a personal confession. Every month or so, I’m taken by the irresistible urge to chew my toenails. Now it just so happened that this urge visited me during my ghosting period, but I resisted it. I felt like my ghost wouldn’t want to see that sort of thing. There was an etiquette that has to be upheld by those being watched, as well as by those watching, after all.

