Fourthly: there is still a kind of emotional "connection" between you. If you hear news of your former partner, for example when his shop in town puts on a promotion and people are talking about it, does it really stir your emotions? As it would obviously do if you were still living with him? Do you find that, uncannily, you are reminded of him so strongly, for example, when you hear an expression he used to use... and then within an hour he's sent you an SMS text message? So that it seems there's a connection still there, that's as if it MUST be, even though part of you knows that you need to
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