Yes, a victim can find his or her soul-mate, but only once he or she is healed! This is what the dynamics of emotional energy suggest - when you no longer suffer from deep unmet needs and trauma, you will attract the truly compatible type of person to your life, the one whose male or female energy is matched to yours by being opposite. When you do, what heals in your life will heal them. No-one is perfect, but your soul-mate will be someone who wants to grow WITH you. Not FROM you...