Fifthly: you keep on thinking the way your narcissist wanted you to. Ideas and assertions that person made still seem to sway you at times. For example, her strong views that street-market vendors are all crooks and confidence-tricksters still keep repeating themselves noisily in your head every time you go to look at a street-market, and you find yourself looking suspiciously at all their goods. You might fight against it, but you can't stop feeling it is so, even though your reason tells you it's unfair and generalizing.