Ask yourself, if you know that you are suffering abuse, what you need to have in a relationship as the bare minimum to live in it. If you decide, and find that after a time you don't get it, then you know you have to leave. Don't keep bending your expectations lower and lower. What would you absolutely love to have in a relationship that would make it happy? Write it down. What is enough to have to make it worthwhile? And what things are absolutely wrong, and cannot be tolerated? Review these definitions. Of course people will have arguments or disagreements... but disagreeing is not the same
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