TWO: Do you want to go back to the way the relationship was at the beginning? Was that beginning exciting, lovely-feeling, sexually- and emotionally-intoxicating if it was a romantic relationship, a relief that finally you'd found who you were looking for, maybe? You were being love-bombed, and now it couldn't be more different. Now your partner is critical, difficult, cold, obviously bored with you. Are you thinking that the love-bomber was your real partner; and that this cruel, conflicting one you feel restless in the presence of now, is somehow not the real person you've ended up living
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