Not just in action but also in words. Actions and words go hand in hand. If someone treats you well but speaks to you like shit, that’s not love. Or if someone speaks to you with love and kindness but treats you like shit, that’s not love. It comes down to actions and words, and they should line up. That’s how you love someone. Anything else isn’t love. And if it’s not love, there is no way to build a healthy relationship.
