Read that sentence again. This is why so many of us fall into lukewarm relationships that lead to years of misery and heartbreak. Relationships we know aren’t right but we don’t want to be alone. Or we think we can fix because fixing things is how we find value in ourselves. But we can’t fix other people. And we’ll always only be 50 percent of any relationship. So even if we could be perfect, that would be only half and half is not enough.