No, we don’t get as much pressure from society and advertising as women do. But we do get it from other men. And from porn. We internalize the images and expectations about penis size, performance, body types. Porn stars used to be chubby with mustaches. Now they look like abnormally endowed quarterbacks. This brainwashing pollutes our sense of worth as well as our relationships, hurting the people we care about the most. Let’s take a detour to see what this looks like in real life.