People think that when you get into a relationship, the work stops. You’re done. You’ve made it. You’ve found someone. You’ve reached the island. Thank God! You don’t have to “date yourself” (aka work on yourself) anymore. But the truth is, even more self-work is needed when you’re in a relationship than when you’re single. Because now the chances of you returning to who you used to be before you embarked on your self-betterment journey are much greater.
