Single On Purpose: Prioritizing Self-Love and Personal Growth in Your Journey Through Life, Dating, and Relationships

by John Kim

Dance for you and other people will dance with you. Dance for others and you become a show. Not a person.

And a relationship is no less real for being unhealthy. There are real memories there. No matter how bad something was, there were still moments of magic and connection and laughter, and now you’ve lost that.

Whatever you haven’t grieved is the virus you will carry into all of them.

into every relationship

Many don’t know what to do with themselves when they are alone because they get their worth from loving someone else. They have never made life about themselves, but always about others. So they have never really built a relationship with themselves. They only know themselves through a relationship.

It wasn’t until I finally allowed myself to know me that I started to like me.

Closure happens right after you accept that letting go and moving on is more important than projecting a fantasy of how the situation could have been. —SYLVESTER MCNUTT III

Engagement means showing up in your truest form every day.

Because over doesn’t mean again. Over means new.