Single On Purpose: Prioritizing Self-Love and Personal Growth in Your Journey Through Life, Dating, and Relationships

by John Kim

connecting back to yourself isn’t just about revisiting an activity you used to love. It’s not about break-dancing per se, or riding a motorcycle, or picking up a guitar. It’s about reconnecting with the spirit of the person you used to be when you liked yourself.

reconnecting with yourself is not about repeating an activity. It’s about finding something that produces that same feeling so you can reconnect with your spirit.

What’s one thing you can do this week to start this connection? What can you do at work? In your relationships? In your relationship with your body? Don’t just write down ideas. Write down the actions you can take, and then execute them.

Many believe that gaining confidence is a solitary journey, but it’s not. Friends contribute significantly. They can make you believe you can do anything you put your mind to or that you’re a piece of shit.

The soil for growth is so rich when you’re single. But only if you are focusing on you. Not on finding someone else.