The words “I’ve decided that . . .” are usually a good indication that you’re in the midst of using Plan A: “Because you’re having difficulty completing your math homework before you go outside, I’ve decided that you can’t go outside until your math homework is done,” or “Because you are having difficulty getting your teeth brushed before bed, I’ve decided that there will be no TV or video games at night until your teeth are brushed,” or “I’ve decided that since you seem to be having difficulty being home at 12 am for curfew, you’re grounded.”
