Every family has its challenges. Siblings don’t always get along, parents don’t always see eye to eye on things, everyone’s too busy, kids are stressed about school or grades or friends, adults are stressed about work or money or trying to carve out time for themselves. Add a kid with concerning behaviors to the mix, and many families and marriages will be pushed to the brink. Then add grandparents who remember the way they would’ve done things in the “good old days” and soccer or hockey coaches who are delighted to tell you how they’d handle your kid.

