But the behaviors aren’t even the most important part. Rather, what those behaviors are telling us is the most important part. And what they’re telling us is that your child is having difficulty meeting certain expectations. Some kids withdraw when there are expectations they’re having difficulty meeting (otherwise they don’t withdraw). Other kids hit when there are expectations they’re having difficulty meeting (otherwise they don’t hit). While it’s tempting to focus on your child’s behaviors, in this book we’ll be focusing instead on the expectations they are having difficulty meeting that
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