When Phil started to date my sister, it was very hard for me. I was so confused and didn’t know who I was more worried about, my sister who was nineteen, and eleven years younger than crazy tattooed Phil, or my recently divorced, heartbroken friend. To be honest, I was concerned it would be the end of our band. I was too protective of my sister and too mixed up about my parenting role to survive a Tiffany-and-Phil breakup. Thank God they got married and all turned out very well.