It’s not always enough, progress can be heavy going, but it is worth it. I still reproach him for his habit of waiting for me to offer up my pre-digested concepts and reflections about masculinity, rather than deconstructing his own as much as he can; and for the way he interrupts me, can’t bear to be wrong, and doesn’t make more of an effort to listen to and support me when I’m stressed or upset. All of these habits are intimately linked to masculinity.
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