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The only people to whom a lifestyle comes naturally are the very rich or the exceptionally famous. Everyone else is just trying to hardscrabble an existence about which they don’t feel an unendurable level of shame.
done so much for so little money and been so soundly ignored by so many.
Every decade, every year, and sometimes every month, I see my money, my life, and my work devalued.
I miss the days when my work—my words—mattered,
Our female friends, the close ones, are the mini-breaks we take from the totalitarian work it requires to keep up the performance of being female.
Emma was alive and well, but I was cooked. A man’s voice rang, succinct and rapid-fire with authority. “Hands in the air or we’ll shoot!”
Emma’s building had installed a silent alarm, trip-wired to activate if the porter’s door opened before anyone keyed in the code.
receipt,
thinking she had betrayed me, I betrayed myself.
We can forgive any number of men murdering their wives and girlfriends. But we have a hard time extending the same compassion to women who kill their husbands and boyfriends, even though women have many more reasons to be driven to it.