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We have a different relationship to pain, their mother used to say. It’s our friend, our lover.
sounded like a dark fairy tale, but was there any other kind?
You show someone your damage and they know all your weak spots.
The very things that first draw you to a person will eventually be the very things that drive you away.
Can come to believe wanting something was the same as making it happen.
“choices feel a lot like surviving.”
When something goes wrong in a family, it takes generations to wipe it out.