After less than a year of marriage, they could no longer ignore their discontent. “I really feel like our whole relationship was propelled by our how-we-met story,” he said. “If we hadn’t had this picturesque story of meeting abroad, of love at first sight, I don’t know that we ever would’ve gotten married. Our whole lives were trying to live up to that fantasy meeting.” Don’t pursue the wrong relationship because you met the “right” way.