Once you’ve thought of a match, contact the person you think is pickier or the person you know better. “Hey! I think I might have a friend who would be a good romantic match for you. Here’s a picture of him. He’s really thoughtful, brilliant, and fun-loving. Would you be open to me setting you two up?” A couple things to watch out for: You don’t want to give too much information and overwhelm the person; nor should you provide too little information and risk triggering the Monet Effect. Just give enough so that your friend is intrigued.
