Choose to decide, not slide. In the Appendix, I’ve included a two-part exercise for writing your own Relationship Contract. These materials have been created in partnership with my friend and collaborator Hannah Hughes. First you’ll see the Self-Reflection Worksheet, which you should fill out on your own. It asks questions about how much alone time you need, what your love languages are, what rituals you value in the relationship, and more. Then you’ll see a blank copy of the Relationship Contract,
