A friend of mine called off her wedding a few weeks before the big day. At that point, several people confessed they’d had doubts about her ex-fiancé but didn’t want to offer unsolicited advice. Don’t let that happen to you. Ask a trusted friend or family member what they really think about your relationship. Choose your adviser wisely. This should be someone who knows you and your partner well, has your best interests at heart, and is good at helping you think through decisions.
