For Hesitaters, there’s a story in your head that one day you’ll wake up and feel ready. That story is fiction. That’s not how life works. Everyone feels awkward sometimes. Most people feel nervous in high-pressure situations. Many of us have a part of ourselves we don’t want to reveal to others. And yet these very same people still go out on dates and kiss people and fall in love and break up and fall in love again and get married.