A client once told me she’d gone on several dates with a guy who lived alone. When she visited his apartment and used the bathroom, she was met with a sink full of beard hair trimmings, an overflowing trash can, and no toilet paper. This woman is a successful, talented professional. She’s thirty-four, and she told me she wants to have “many kids.” I’m not saying that a guy with a filthy bathroom couldn’t make a great husband and father. But if she’s thirty-four and wants to give birth to a brood of children, she realistically needs to start soon. And who’s more likely to be ready to start a
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