It fascinates me that we don’t think less of ourselves because we can’t play soccer like Megan Rapinoe or perform gravity-defying gymnastics like Simone Biles. I suspect many women are like me and marvel at what these women have accomplished with hard work and probably genetics. And yet if our bodies don’t look like Jennifer Lopez at fifty—who also looks the way she does because of hard work and genetics—we feel judged by society.
