“I want you to know that I love you as you are, and I don’t want to change you.” (Positive Acceptance) “I am sharing this idea out of a place of love, care, and desire to improve our relationship, as we committed to in our relationship goals.” (Growth Mindset) “I am concerned that some of our issues keep coming up because we do not have the right skills. It would be very meaningful for me if we go to therapy as a couple, and individually, so that we can learn how to support each other. I understand that therapy is something you don’t want to do, but going with me shows me how much you care
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