Honestly. Say what you truly think and feel rather than softpedaling or distorting the truth. Instead of, “I can’t volunteer because I have other plans,” you say, “I prefer not to volunteer because I want to have some time alone at home.” Clearly. Communicate directly. Rather than being vague or dropping hints, be clear. Instead of, “Are you busy Tuesday night?” you ask clearly, “Would you be willing to attend the class I’m teaching on Tuesday night and give me feedback on how I can improve?” In a timely fashion. Consider the moment. You understand that some moments are better than others for
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