people always have an opinion on what they would do if they were you,” I said. “And it’s all based on their traumas, their experience, whatever options they didn’t have. It’s got nothing to do with you, but they’ll make it about you. Which is ironic because, they’ll be quick to say you’re selfish, or not grateful enough, but they’re not thinking about you – they’re thinking about them. All that if it was me or I wish I had… all of that is just