He overstepped normal boundaries and we had a blowup. Then he lied to others about what happened. I cut all contact with him for a year. We were helped to get over it by a mediator, and I would recommend this to anyone in my situation. I think people should seek out somebody who can identify the problem and help each of them avoid it in the future. Each person is so entrenched in their victimization that they can’t see their participation in the blowup. Find a mediator who is an objective third party and does not have a dog in this race. Because there’s no way that you can have clarity when
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