It’s so easy to blame the other person. It’s just so much easier to say, “Well, he did this or he did that.” But of course everybody has a part in it, and if you don’t look at your own part in it, you can’t reconcile. If you’re only looking at their part, it’s just not possible, because it won’t work. I realized that I blew up and said some things I shouldn’t have said. I did insult him in unkind ways. People need to think about what they did, what’s their part in it. And if you’re going to make an apology or reach out, stick to your part in it and not their part.
