that I did not want to be that person who left the world with a grudge, or with someone having a grudge toward me. So I reconnected with my dad. So many things had gone on between us that it was tempting to bring up past hurts. But I could tell that he was more interested in seeing who I was and me seeing who he was than hashing up the past. We both found that we were focused on more important things in life, and on connecting with one another. So in a way it was like a new relationship.
