have two children, and I’m starting to become aware that their perspective is different because they didn’t grow up seeing this harmonious family. They’re left with wondering why their grandfather doesn’t get along with any of his siblings or any of his big family. They’re missing out right now on what could be warm and loving, like what I got to experience growing up. Our kids are strangers to a lot of the family, and they don’t really engage much with them. It’s missing from their life. You have to figure out a way to fix those things, or the innocent get hurt for generations.
