“The gender dynamics between cis-het straight people are often disturbing and not especially feminist. Even if the man ‘supports’ feminism, he eats up more air time, . . . he looks for validation. . . . When I spend time with single cis-het female friends, much of the conversation is dominated by their dating lives, and sadly, pathetically, whether or not a man they are dating is ignoring them. . . . I also hate it when cis-het women say things like, ‘I wish I could just be a lesbian.’” (Filipino, masculine female)
