As described earlier, straight men suck the energy out of the room, and straight men are the first to fill it with boring vapor. Straight culture is what’s left over when all the interesting stuff has been emptied out or bored through. Straight women do the emotional labor, and straight men step in, or interrupt, when it’s time to explain things. And how do queers know this? We have witnessed it, but we have also listened to straight women complain about it,
