Fight versus Flight – Resist the temptation to spill the beans. Turn a deaf ear on the whisperings of human nature. We all like sharing secrets but no one likes spoiling a surprise. Us versus Them – Let’s keep this to ourselves until the big reveal, eh? We’re privileged insiders. We don’t want to admit outsiders to the club too early, do we? Right versus Wrong – How would you feel knowing that something you said not only ruined the big day itself but also all the effort and hard work that went into it?