I Am a Person Who…prefers certain places to live My Preferred Place(s) to Live Goal in Filling Out This Petal: To define in what part of the country or the world you would most like to work and live, and would be happiest, if you ever have a choice. Also to resolve any conflict (should it arise) between you and your partner as to where you want to live after you retire or make your next career move. What You Are Looking For: Forming a clearer picture about what you hope for in life, now or later. Now, if you’re able to move and want to make a wise decision as to where.