The parenting dynamic is more complicated when mothers in particular, or other loved ones or close people in positions of authority, have internalized the belief that the look of their bodies is their most important asset and their responsibility to meticulously maintain. Their example can unintentionally pull their children into the dangerous waters of objectification. This belief shows up in negative self-talk, constant restricting and dieting, exercising for weight control or to make up for “bad” food choices, and seeing their children’s appearances as reflections of themselves.
