This is not an exhaustive list but a sampling of areas to lovingly look at as you commit to mutual leader care. Marriage and family problems Workaholism Lack of commitment to a regular devotional life No regular commitment to sabbaths of rest Unhealthy ministry or leadership relationships Lack of regular, meaningful connection to the fellowship and mutual ministry of the body of Christ Debt Unwholesome communication Anger Discouragement, depression, or burnout Physical ill health Resistance to loving criticism and spiritual care Domineering or controlling manner Unreconciled relationships