Perhaps you can get love from a partner, or parent, or family member or friend who wants to love you. Perhaps you have to work for it. You may have to be a specific type or achieve certain measures of success to be loved by that person. You are willing to do anything, even if the price for that love is high and exhausting, because someone’s got to love you. Perhaps you are chasing love that keeps slipping away. You see it from afar but you never really feel good, and when it is in your grasp, you push it away. You are proficient at repelling love or even compliments.

