Ask your partner, if you have one, to have a close look. Turn on the light, take off your clothes, get on your back, and let them look. Ask them to tell you what they see, how they feel about what they see, what memories they have of your vulva. Let your partner know what you’ve felt worried about, and ask them to help you see what they see. Listen to what they say—listen with your heart, not with your fear.
