The yes-person. Drops everything and neglects all needs in the service of others. Was likely modeled self-sacrifice in childhood and engaged in deep codependency patterns, much as the caretaker did. Believes that the only way to receive love is to be both good and selfless. Dear Little Yes-Person Nicole, I know you have felt that you have to say “yes” whenever someone asks you to do something for them, such as hang out, loan your favorite shirt, or do a favor. I know this makes you feel like a bad person if you really want to say “no.” You don’t have to do this anymore. You are allowed to say
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