Blamers: “I am both worse and better than you thought.” —Sylvia Plath The sensitive and spirited ones of the family, blamers are the first at our side when we need them and the first to jump down our throats if they feel betrayed, slighted, or disrespected. Highly attuned to imbalances, they’re the dutiful daughters, mothers, and sisters who try their best but can’t stop showing their worst when something feels wrong or unfair. Even though they’re sweet people, they have an aggressive reputation for lashing out when hurt.
