Too many people approach dating with the idea that it’s all about finding “the one.” That there is this one person out there who is right for you, and finding them is the entire point of the plot. Once you find that person, you’re done. You’ve won. Because this person is perfect. Not truly perfect—we all know that nobody is perfect—but this person is perfect for you, just as you are perfect for them. They are your “soul mate.” And because of this “match made in heaven,” once you do find each other, everything will work out perfectly. The hard work is finding each other; once you find them, the
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