This does not mean that next week the prospective partner who you wrote off because you thought they were not ready won’t make a terrible decision to move ahead with someone else before they are ready in an act of poor judgment (e.g., they were drunk and a popular classmate was hitting on them), but even if they do, that type of sexual experience is not the type with which you want to be associated. The not-quite-ready person will likely regret the experience. We can’t emphasize how much you won’t want to be a part of that terrible memory.

