You might have noticed how remarkable it is that some brilliant autistics aren’t able to cook, eat on time or keep their houses tidy. Other autistics stick to the rules of the systems they have created for themselves so strictly, that even the smallest change can really upset them. They’re two sides to the same problem: trouble with executive functions.
The order of the vacuum plus laundry plus shower without "blockers" equals two hours of writing out the hours and steps and time loss and nothing gets done and then enters guilt